Thanks for the kind words.
The router intention is not to help you get into a game solo or force connections to your friends so you're on opposite teams - the intention has always been to get you the best games possible.
The game devs changed their matchmaking system so that you're unable to do this anymore, not us. I think the fact we're looking into the possibility of a workaround to allow an unintentional way of connecting to the game shows we care about our customers.
We are going to re-classify Destiny and push a cloud update so you can at the very least filter via servers properly - if there is anything more we can do then we will but it may not be possible. I understand you're frustrated but I feel your anger is misplaced. We'll keep people posted.