I will try and update the firmware later.
I had everything by default to start with the filter size. It was selecting servers within the filter circle. I went and changed the ping assist setting to 60MS to see what kind of connections I would get and it started selecting servers outside of the filter radius that were within the ping margins. I tried closing in the filter size radius but didn't solve the issue. I then put ping assist back to default hoping the filter radius would kick back in but it didn't. It was connecting to 3 servers outside of my preferred range but within the ping assist margins.
After a reboot, it looked like it was only connecting to 1 of the unpreferred servers, a bit north of my filter circle (Chicago). I tried blocking it but it didn't take. I just started backing out of the lobby if it connected to that server. Not a huge deal, but my connection to that server just seems to be really bad for some reason. I'll do some more testing as I play this week/weekend.
Atlanta seems to be my preferred server. I haven't seen a connection to Miami or Washington DC yet, but I'm on Xbox so i'm not sure if maybe not all servers are crossplay enabled or something else is happening? I know someone locally using the R2 so I will probably do some troubleshooting and compare/contrast results. I may end up resetting everything and going back to a basic geo-filter circle.