Update... so I changed my settings again and disabled geo filter and put reactive on instead of preemptive and bumped up my bandwidth to 60 40 and have not been kicked but I have had a harder time finding good settings on dslreports.com and it's been a NOTICEABLE difference that I am having in game quality right now. The connections are just as bad before I have the duma so I don't know what the big difference in preemptive and reactive but it is very noticeable